They say that love is doing what's right for somebody else before you turn your attention to yourself. Yup ... I really don't have a problem doing that. Although it seems I'm the only one capable of doing such sometimes.
We all make mistakes. I can't prevent you from making your mistakes ... no matter how incredible they are or how bad the consequences are for me.
If you struggle with the choices that you have made ... then maybe, just maybe, you've made the wrong choices.